Member Standards
Sincere Interests is built on a foundation of directness, respect, and zero ghosting. Membership is a privilege maintained through high-integrity interactions.
Gaining Status
- Positive Vouches: Earned when peers confirm your Authenticity, Conduct, and Reliability.
- Trusted Member: Automatically granted after 3 positive vouches.
- Vanguard Member: Our highest tier, granted after 10 positive vouches with a perfect record.
Losing Status
- Conduct Flags: Disrespectful behavior or boundary violations trigger immediate administrative review.
- Ghost-Proof Penalties: Accumulating 3 flags for unresponsiveness automatically reduces your profile visibility by 50%.
- Authenticity Flags: Significant mismatches between your profile and reality lead to account suspension.
Members must:
- Represent themselves truthfully
- State their relationship intentions clearly
- Engage only within the intention they selected
- Disclose relevant changes in intention when they occur
Members must NOT:
- Misrepresent availability, identity, or desires
- Pursue hidden agendas
- Say one thing to gain access and behave differently later
Misalignment is grounds for removal.
Members must:
- Communicate directly and honestly
- Engage respectfully in all interactions
- Act without harassment, hostility, or humiliation
Members must NOT:
- Ghost as a conflict-avoidance tactic after meaningful interaction
- Use insults, threats, or degrading language
- Engage in passive-aggressive or retaliatory behavior
You are not required to continue any connection — you are required to end it respectfully.
Members must:
- Respect boundaries immediately when stated
- Accept rejection gracefully and without retaliation
- Communicate desires without pressure or coercion
Members must NOT:
- Push, persuade, guilt, or manipulate
- Escalate intimacy without clear mutual consent
- Treat silence as consent
“No,” “not now,” or disengagement are final.
Members must:
- Provide feedback on unresponsive matches
- Maintain active communication until a respectful conclusion
- Take accountability for impact, not just intent
Members must NOT:
- Disappear without explanation after initial interest
- Ignore communications to trigger a 'soft' breakup
Unresponsive behavior results in dropped visibility and reputation via our Ghost-Proof System.
Members must:
- Complete video verification honestly
- Use real identities only
- Maintain a single, verified account
Members must NOT:
- Impersonate another person or use AI-generated assets
- Create backup or alternate accounts
Identity deception results in permanent removal.
By remaining a member, you confirm that you have read these standards and agree to uphold them. You understand that access is conditional on maintaining a high reputation score through our Reputation-Based Vouching system.
This Code exists to protect our best members — not to accommodate the loudest ones.